23 Jul 2008

Is Shyness holding you back?

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I know many young models who are terribly shy (I would be too if I was 2 feet taller than all the boys) , which ends up holding them back in castings. Dr. Mercola’s website explains that shyness has everything to do with how comfortable you feel in your own skin…its all about confidence!

However, I understand that it might be a little overwhelming being an awkward Giselle in the midst of adolescent bullies. To cope with being the wonderful freak of nature you may be, try checking out these tips that Dr. Mercola has to offer: 20 tips to attack shyness.

Believe it or not, but I used to be horribly shy growing up, so I know what you’re going through. But I worked really hard to overcome it, and I know you can too. Shine!! Don’t hold yourself back! :)

xo,

Betsy

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20 Jul 2008

My Soy Dreams are Ruined!

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I recently took a quick vacation to Sedona in Northern Arizona with my family where we hiked, relaxed and drank wine like we usually do; however, I ended up making a discovery that has changed my life. 

 I grew up in Oak Creek Canyon during the summers, so we have some neighbors down there that I consider family. One neighbor in particular is Shelly. 
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I love Shelly because she lives full time deep in the canyon and grows her own vegetables: garlic, spinach, tomatoes, basil, squash…you name it. She wears no make up and is always outfitted in her teva sandles and hiking shorts, yet she has this natural quite beauty which causes me to probe her on her lifestyle any chance I get.  The latest wisdom she gave me was on a 2 mile hike, straight up the canyon wall….
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We were on the topic of food as we were enjoying some almonds she had soaked and dried herself.  I don’t know quite how it came about but I think I asked her if she drank soy milk, and in the dry, even, “matter of fact” tone she always uses she said “No, soy is really bad for you…”, just like that!! (Shelly actually drinks raw unpasterized whole milk…)

“What!?!!” I was thinking in my mind.  If anyone was going to eat soy I was sure it would have been Shelly.  Then I felt embarrased to tell her that I consume soy every day…mainly because milk upsets my stomache.  So I just let her go on about how soy causes moodswings, elevated hormone levels (this explaines a lot!), cancer, malnutrion in 3rd world countries, thyroid disease etc. etc. ….

I was crushed. So I decided to do my own research, and she was right…
PhotobucketIn an article titled “Cinderella’s Dark Side”  by Sally Fallon & Mary G. Enig, Ph.D., soy is bashed for containing “giotrogens-subtances that depress thyroid function”, and haemagglutinin, a clot-promoting substance that causes red blood cells to clump together”. Hmmmm, not cool.

There are tons of articles written about soy, its origin, and why it can be very harmful to one’s health.  Here are a couple key facts about soy:

- Soy became a food during the Chou Dynasty when it was discovered how to ferment it to make foods like miso and soy sauce (Cinderella’s Dark Side)
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-The Chinese did not eat unfermented soy beans because they contained large quantaties of anti-nutrients, stuff that cancels out the absorbtion of other nutrients the body needs, these toxins are not completely deactivated during cooking  (Cinderella’s Dark Side)

-Soy is synthetic…99% of soy is genetically modified and soy contains one of the highest levels of contamination by pesticides (Cinderella’s Dark Side)

-There are studies that show soy may increase the prominance of estrogen dependent breast cancer (mercola.com)

The Weston A. Price Foundation lists their reasons for boycotting soy:

  • High levels of phytic acid in soy reduce assimilation of calcium, magnesium, copper, iron and zinc. Phytic acid in soy is not neutralized by ordinary preparation methods such as soaking, sprouting and long, slow cooking. High phytate diets have caused growth problems in children.
  • Trypsin inhibitors in soy interfere with protein digestion and may cause pancreatic disorders. In test animals soy containing trypsin inhibitors caused stunted growth.
  • Soy phytoestrogens disrupt endocrine function and have the potential to cause infertility and to promote breast cancer in adult women.
  • Soy phytoestrogens are potent antithyroid agents that cause hypothyroidism and may cause thyroid cancer. In infants, consumption of soy formula has been linked to autoimmune thyroid disease.
  • Vitamin B12 analogs in soy are not absorbed and actually increase the body’s requirement for B12.
  • Soy foods increase the body’s requirement for vitamin D.
  • Fragile proteins are denatured during high temperature processing to make soy protein isolate and textured vegetable protein.
  • Processing of soy protein results in the formation of toxic lysinoalanine and highly carcinogenic nitrosamines.
  • Free glutamic acid or MSG, a potent neurotoxin, is formed during soy food processing and additional amounts are added to many soy foods.
  • Soy foods contain high levels of aluminum which is toxic to the nervous system and the kidneys.
  •  In conclusion, do not give your babies soy milk!! I highly suggest you research a little bit for yourself if you are a soy eater like I was. Visit Dr. Mercola’s site and read about Why Soy Can Damage Your Health.

    Here are some healthy protien alternatives if you are a vegetarian and  used to getting your protein from soy products like Tofu: Pumpkin Seeds, Chickpeas ,Beans and Legumes, Peanut Butter, Dairy Products, Algae, and Vegetables like Broccoli, Kale and Turnip Greens.

    Personally,  I think it is ok to eat meat.  Just make sure it is a lean meat like Chicken or Fish and that it hasn’t been given antibiotics or hormones.  I hope this has been helpful to you.

    I am pretty relieved that I don’t have to feel guilty anymore about hating Tofu…

    xo

    Betsy

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    19 Jul 2008

    Clean Face Vs. Make Up Ready

    When your agent books you for a modeling job, they will either tell you to come “Clean Face” or “Make up Ready”. I thought I would help you guys out by clarifying what this means a little bit more….

    Clean Face: A clean moisturized face. No make up. Make sure you wash your face that morning with a gentle face wash like Cetephil or Jason. Then moisturize with a very light, oil free, face cream and use a light gentle eye cream ( I love Trilogy eye cream). Do not use SPF unless you know you will be shooting outside all day…

    Make Up Ready: Unless otherwise directed, do not wear a lot of heavy makeup. Instead, I would just use a light concealer, some bare minerals powder and blush, light matte eye shadow (no shimmer!!), a natural color eye liner on the top lid only, and a couple coats of a mascara that will not clump. MAC has a Mascara which you put on in coats depending on how thick you want your eye lashes to be.

    Use an eye concealer that is light and not cakey, I really like MAC ‘s Studio Stick Concealer because it reflects light and does not look to to heavy.

    Finally, I would use a tinted lip conditioner. Do not use gloss unless you are asked to come “Camera Ready”. Beauty Cosmetics has great tinted lip conditioners made for models by a model.

    If they would like more make up on you they should have someone there for “Touch ups” that will take care of the job. But generally, less is more!!

    Email me if you have questions and good luck on all of your castings!

    xo

    Betsy

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    18 Jul 2008

    Hard Optimism

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    Attitude is Everything

    My father used to hang this huge poster in my room that simply said “Attitude is Everything” when I was in high school, I think he was searching for means to get me out of bed in the morning so I wouldn’t be late for class (I did not like mornings!). At the time I was just like daaad, you’re a dork.

    Then in College I was going through a tough time and he gave me a book called Hard Optimism, this time I actually paid attention…and it really has become my bible.

    As much as the body needs training, so does the mind. Hard Optimism is one of my favorite books because it focuses on training the mind to dismiss negative thoughts. Basically it is saying that you can be a positive person, but if you still have negative thoughts they will cancel out the positive….

    I try and read a little bit every once in a while or when I’m feeling unmotivated. Here is one of my favorite quotes from the book:

    “The key is to be hopeful on purpose. Deliberately. Hope is a muscle that needs regular exercise”

    I strongly believe that having a positive attitude is the real key to success; do not take your optimism for granted ever, because for most people, positivity is something they must work on every day…you must be proactive in finding positivity!

    Comment on this post with your email address and I will put you in a drawing for your own copy of Hard Optimism by Price Pritchett! (I’ll announce the winner on Sunday!)

    xo,

    Betsy

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    16 Jul 2008

    Priming yourself for a career in fashion…

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    Hi Betsy!

    I have come to another fold in the road and you’re the best to seek for the advise! :) Because let’s face it, you’re fabulous! lol :)

    Anyways, I’ve known for quite some time when I finish high school, I want to go to college to become involved in the fashion industry. Ok that’s great, one dilemma: I don’t know what field exactly, with the exception I’m pretty positive I don’t want to go into fashion design. And then the more major dilemma: I don’t know what major to choose that will help me get an internship or will eventually help get me into the industry.

    I’ll be done with high school after this next year and am also hoping I’ll be able to swim college swim team.

    Recently, I’ve been really feeling like I want to go to Pepperdine University but the whole thing with figuring out what major seems so hard right now when they don’t have a “Fashion Merchandising” major, etc. Prior to that I looked into going to FIDM, but I really don’t think that’s where I want to go because I’d be giving up swimming, academically I don’t know what else FIDM could offer me because they’re SO specialized, and I’ve heard too the credits aren’t transferable.

    Anyways, any advice you have would be much appreciated! Thank you SO much!

    XO. Grace

    
    
    
    

     

    Hey Grace!


    Oh that confusing period when you’re trying to figure out what to do with the rest of your life…been there too many times! lol

    If you are set on being involved in the fashion industry, I would try to continually self educate yourself. Read fashion blogs like www.thefashionspot.com and subscribe to a fashion publication like Women’s Wear Daily! Personally, I try to check out Confessions of a Casting Director, Women’s Wear Daily and Models.com as much as I can!

    When it comes time to pick your major, if you choose not to go the fashion merchandising/design route, I would pick a Business major like marketing or management! You probably could find a fashion club to join as well! Then when it comes time, make sure to get yourself a fabulous internship at a showroom, fashion magazine or modeling agency and work your butt off! Don’t gain a huge ego, always observe what goes on and keep respect for the people you work with and you’ll do fine!

    Lastly, be POSITIVE and don’t lose sight of your dreams! Attitude is everything in this business… if you put your mind to something, you CAN achieve it! :)

    xo

    Betsy

     



    
    
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    15 Jul 2008

    Healthy Beauty To-Go!

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    Hey Everyone,

    I hope you had a great weekend, mine was filled with scouting and traveling! While exposing myself to the elements…I made sure to wear lots of sunscreen and was mindful of the humidity levels wherever I went so my face wouldn’t break out. I also made sure to bring my Brush2Go mineral powder, blush and bronzer. Its the perfect make up for an active lifestyle because it isn’t messy AND it contains SPF 20 protection… genius! Created by a formal model, the mineral makeup is 100% natural, non-comedogenic, hypo-allergenic and anti-bacterial… and it contains no parabens!

    I personally like it because it goes on extremely light and natural; you can layer it on depending on how much coverage/color you would like. It is the perfect makeup for your model tote (great for touch ups on the go)!!

    You can find more info about it at www.beautycosmedics.com.

    Have a fab Monday! :)

    Betsy

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    10 Jul 2008

    My Juana Earings!

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    Hey guys,

    I’m back from my Vaca and so excited to share with you all of the things I have learned the past couple of weeks!

    But its been a long busy day at the agency, so I am just going to share with you my FAVORITE jewelry designer out of Miami! I’ve been asked who made my earrings in my blog picture, and her name is Erika Pena (she gave them to me after I had her jewelry showcased at one of our fashion shows!)
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    I absolutely love them! They were one of her best sellers for a couple of years…aand now they are on sale for around $38! So exciting!!

    Vist their site at www.erikapenaboutique.com! They are having a huge sale this month, check out their specials!

    More to come tomorrow!

    xo

    Betsy

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